Replacing the soap dispenser on the Bosch dishwasher

Dishwasher Repair
1

OK, we are beyond frustrated with trying to install the new soap dispenser that we order from Appliance Part Pros. We can NOT get the top of the soap dispenser to fit into the metal tabs. So what do you suggest, beside sending the part back to you and calling a repairman.

Part # BSH 431413

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And just “snapping” the soap dispenser is NOT working, either.